Let's take the fear, shame and stigma out of self love. effyes is dedicated to sexual empowerment for all levels of experience.
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The holy grail of clitoral stimulation, not even kidding! This discretely awesome and intensely powerful little legend is your daily mood booster and new BFF

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effyes was founded to create a friendly, safe, supportive and shame-free community to empower vulva owners to explore and take ownership of their sexuality.

Self-love is awesome… but for many out there, thoughts or sexuality and desire can be intimidating, confusing and can bring on feelings of shame and guilt.
If this is you, we see you.

We genuinely believe that self-love is self-care and shame should never come into the equation. That’s why we are dedicated to open communication and awesome orgasms for all! Together, we can take the fear, shame and stigma out of self love.


By far the best toy I have used in a long time! I only pick up the Me Time now, whether I’m using it with my partner or need a bit of me time! This product has honestly changed the game, and I think everyone deserves a bit of me time!

Molly F

This is my first sex toy and I'm so incredibly happy with this product and kicking myself that I waited this long before dipping my toys into the world of toys.

Kelsey M

This toy is sure to make you feel like a queen in the bedroom.

Danielle S

I absolutely adore my Me Time! It's by far the best sex toy I've ever used. It makes me feel really satisfied every time. I can't recommend this toy enough!

Lauren M


Self pleasure is a normal and healthy part of life. Not only does it feel AH-MAZING, but it has numerous health benefits and can also help to increase libido, boost mood, assist sleep and relieve stress.

Showing yourself a little love can help boost your confidence and can be a great way to get to know your own body and preferences. So go ahead and love yourself – it’s good for you!
Oh, and did we mention that it feels great?

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At effyes, we believe that self-love is self-care. We're dedicated to creating a positive, safe and supportive community for vulva owners to explore their sexuality without fear, shame or stigma. Our range of products are expertly crafted and easy to use, so you can explore your sexuality with confidence. Whether you're just starting out or already an advanced player, we've got something for everyone! Come join the fun at effyes!

Best Sex Toys for beginners

If you're new to the world of sexual exploration, you may be wondering what all the fuss is about when it comes to clitoral suction stimulators. To put it simply, these devices offer a unique and enjoyable way to stimulate the clitoris. Unlike traditional vibrators, which can sometimes be a bit overwhelming, clitoral suction stimulators provide a gentler, more targeted sensation. Additionally, many women find that the suction sensation is more pleasurable than vibration alone. If you're looking for a fun and unintimidating way to explore your sexuality, a clitoral suction stimulator is a great place to start.

What are the benefits of using pleasure products?

We all know that feeling of post-orgasmic bliss. But did you know that there are actually some health benefits to using pleasure products? According to studies, climaxing can help to reduce stress, improve sleep, and boost your mood. Not to mention, it just feels damn good.

They can help to increase sexual arousal and heighten sensation. Sex toys can also be used to explore different aspects of sexuality and find new ways to experience pleasure. Additionally, they can be a great way to add variety to one's sex life.

Whether you prefer to fly solo or enjoy a little help from your friends, there’s no shame in finding ways to turn up the heat in the bedroom. In fact, we think it’s something everyone should experience. So go ahead and explore your options. Your mind (and body) will thank you for it.

How to choose the right pleasure product for you?

When it comes to pleasure products for women, there is no one-size-fits-all answer (Pardon the pun!). With so many pleasure products on the market, it can be hard to decide which one is right for you. But never fear! With a little bit of research, you can find the perfect toy to fit your needs.

The first step is to decide what kind of sensation you're looking for. Do you want something that vibrates, or something that pulsates? Something intense or something soft? Or are you looking for something that provides a more all-over feeling?

Once you've narrowed down the type of sensation you're after, you can start considering other factors, like size and shape. Do you want something discreet or something that makes a statement? And don't forget about materials! If you have any allergies or sensitivities, be sure to choose a product made from body-safe materials.

Of course, these are just general guidelines - ultimately, the best way to find out what kind of pleasure product is right for you is to experiment and see what works best for you. With a few key considerations in mind, finding the right pleasure product is easy peasy!

What are the different types of pleasure products for vulva owners?

When it comes to finding the perfect pleasure product, there sure are a wide range of options to choose from and with so many different types on the market, it can be tricky to know where to start! To help you make the most of your next pleasure product research session, here is a quick list of 10 common types of pleasure products to consider:

  1. 1. Clitoral Suction Stimulators
    2. Vibrators
    3. Vibrating Bullets
    4. G-Spot Stimulators
    5. Rabbit Vibrators
    6. Dildos
    7. Vibrating Panties
    8 .Kegel Exercisers
    9. Anal Beads
    10. Butt Plugs

To read a little more on each of these products check out our blog - Top 10 Pleasure Products For Women